Brownies for my Grandpa

Almost two weeks ago, my grandpa died. I’ve been debating writing about this for a lot of reasons, but if this blog is about anything other than food, it’s about family, and he was an important part of mine. It would be selfish of me not to share what I can of him with the world.

My grandparents

There are many, many things that made my grandpa a great man, but they can all be distilled down to one undeniable truth–he loved people, especially his family, and people loved him. Sometimes–well, let’s be honest, often–that love, and his sense of humor, was kind of goofy, a little teasing or sarcastic, possibly, occasionally crude (though never crass or dirty; he (almost) never swore), but always unique to him–even if the joke itself wasn’t unique. I wouldn’t be surprised if my grandma’s (lovingly) rolled her eyes at the same joke for the entire 63 years they were married.

Three weeks before he passed away was Paczki Day, Fat Tuesday. I hadn’t planned on making any, or shipping them overnight to Cleveland where there’s no shortage of good paczki to be had. Still I found myself frying up two dozen golden little donuts filled with my homemade jam that Sunday night, tucking them safely into boxes for their journey. My grandma brought one to my grandpa in the hospital, leaving instructions with his nurses to microwave it a little; paczki are better warm. She told me later that he called her that night to tell her to thank me and that it was delicious.

60th wedding anniversary

I was lucky enough to see him the next weekend and despite how simply not like my grandfather he looked–there’s something that twists your heart and makes you feel so old when you realize the people you always, always knew to be big and tall are not so much anymore–the eye-roll-inducing humor and good spirit remained, for which I could not be more grateful. We chatted for a bit and I asked again if he liked the paczki and he said he did, joking he gained four pounds just from one. I reminded him I could make and ship him anything he wanted, cookies, or maybe brownies. “Ooh, brownies…” My grandpa, as my mom later reminded me, loved chocolate.

Two weeks later, as I prepared for another trip to Cleveland, this time to be with my family and celebrate my grandfather’s life, his “Ooh, brownies” kept ringing in my ears. And so, again, I found myself in the kitchen mixing and baking when I should have been packing and sleeping. Somehow the brownies were more important than anything else at that moment. There’s comfort in sharing food with loved ones, especially during a hard time, but making and bringing those brownies with me was purely selfish–it was the last thing my grandpa asked me for and what kind of granddaughter with a food blog and a penchant for cooking for an army would I be if I didn’t deliver?

Nothing says love like fattening up your family

There isn’t enough time or space or simply the words to share my memories of him, but it’s the little things I keep thinking about and telling anyone who will listen. How he made me his specialty of bacon scrambled into eggs when I had chicken pox as a kid. How we’d always go out for Italian food when he and my grandma were in town and he’d always joke with the waiter about how he was on a fixed income before placing his usual order of veal parmesan and a glass of “white zin.” His voice in the back of my mind as my car crapped out the week he died: “You should’ve bought a GM. When’s the last time you got the oil changed? And maybe take it to the car wash once in a while.” The pride in his voice echoing through the hall as I walked across the stage to get my Master’s degree: “You go, girl!!”

My graduation

My sisters and I are so lucky, not only to have had him as an incredible grandfather and for the limitless love he gave us, but for how we’ve benefited from how he and my grandma raised their first born, my mom. My aunt said in her eulogy that my grandpa raised his daughters to be independent (and, among other essential life skills, to know the power of duct tape; how to use a lawnmower and a snow blower; and to appreciate a good power tool). Through my mom, how she’s lived her life, made her own way, my grandpa’s lesson came to me. I know he was so proud of her just as he was proud of me. And I could not be prouder to be his granddaughter.

Mom and Grandpa, dancing
Mom and Grandpa, dancing. He loved to dance.

Thanks, Grandpa. I made you some brownies.

Brownies with Walnuts
These aren’t actually the ones I made and brought to my family (those were from Smitten Kitchen), but they are the ones I would have made if I hadn’t run out of cocoa powder that night. These are my favorite brownies courtesy of Alice Medrich.

10 tablespoons unsalted butter
1 1/4 cups sugar
3/4 cup plus 2 tablespoons unsweetened cocoa powder (natural or Dutch-process)
1/4 teaspoon salt
2 teaspoons water
1/2 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
2 cold large eggs
1/2 cup all-purpose flour
2/3 cup walnut pieces

Position a rack in the lower third of the oven and preheat the oven to 325°F. Line the bottom and sides of an 8×8 metal baking pan with foil, leaving an overhang on two opposite sides. Coat foil with nonstick spray.

Melt butter in a saucepan over medium heat. Cook until the butter stops foaming and it begins to turn golden brown and smell nutty, stirring often, about 5 minutes. Remove from the heat; immediately add sugar, cocoa, 2 teaspoons water, vanilla, and a generous 1⁄4 teaspoon salt. Stir just to combine. Let cool 5 minutes (the batter will still be hot). Add eggs to the hot mixture 1 at a time, beating vigorously with a wooden spoon after each addition. When the batter looks thick and shiny, add the flour and stir until blended. Beat vigorously 60 strokes then stir in the walnuts. Transfer batter to your prepared pan.

Bake for about 25 minutes, or until a toothpick poked in the center of the brownies comes out with a few moist crumbs attached. Let cool completely on a baking rack.

Lift the brownies out of the pan using the edges of the liner, and transfer them to a cutting board. Cut into squares.


17 thoughts on “Brownies for my Grandpa

  1. CHRISTINA, this is so well done. thank you for putting into words, the things we all knew and loved.
    He left behind a great family filled with a great legacy, memories and love. I think you opened up the flood gates for all that needed a good cry. It’s good thing!! He will always be a part of everyone who knew him.


  2. Christina, how beautiful. You have the words to lift spirits. And I wish I lived in Chicago…the bourbon brownie story. I think I’ll make them. I love bourbon. Great Aunt Natalie


  3. My best memories of Grandpa related to food were all summer based. Every Sunday, we’d load up the car with food for a day at Monto Falls to swim. Breakfast (scrambled eggs with bacon infused), lunch (giant, and I mean GIANT steaks for the charcoal grill) and dinner (hot dogs and hamburgers). And Grandpa was the cook of all of this food. And of course there was the day of swimming with him throwing us into the water diving and swimming with us until the sun went down. Wonderful food memories of him!


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